Think you＊ve visited them all? Well, guess what - there＊s more! Here＊s a list of the best, but not so well-known, secret swingers clubs around the country and what it＊s like to step inside their kinky doors＃

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Think you＊ve visited them all? Think again.

When it comes to the best swingers clubs UK has to offer, there＊s a whole world beyond the well-known names. Behind quiet countryside gates and unmarked city doors hide some of the most adventurous, open-minded, and downright delicious secret swingers clubs you＊ve never heard of 每 until now.

Whether you're part of long-standing swingers groups, dipping your toes into your first orgy, or hunting for the perfect dungeon-meets-dance floor experience, this list uncovers the hidden gems of the UK swinging scene. From steamy spa nights in Bournemouth to fetish-fueled parties in Glasgow and countryside sexcapades in Devon, these venues mix intimacy, kink and connection in all the right ways.

Ready to discover your next favorite late-night playground? These are the secret swinger clubs UK swingers whisper about 每 and we＊re spilling the tea (and maybe a little more). Let＊s go＃

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No. 1 Best Secret UK Swingers Clubs: CJ＊s in Glasgow

The largest city in Scotland has many hidden secrets, and the first swingers club on our list is one of them. Located on the north side of Glasgow, CJ＊s has 7 playrooms, 2 lounges, rooms especially for couples and females only (complete with love swing!), and for us kinksters, a kinky dungeon with all sorts of BDSM equipment begging to be played with. Towels, condoms, and refreshments are provided upon entry. All guests are asked to bring their sexy selves dressed up in a smart-casual fashion and a small contribution towards the running cost of what has come to be known as a must-see swinging destination for all sexually liberated Scots.?

Fetishes: CJ＊s offers everything from traditional swinger playrooms to a full-on BDSM dungeon, catering to exhibitionism, group sex, and kink-friendly fun. Perfect for those looking to combine swinging with fetish play.

Who is it for: Open-minded adults of all genders and orientations. Popular with locals in their 30s to 50s, but friendly to newcomers and experienced kinksters alike.

Address:North Glasgow, Scotland (exact address disclosed after contact)

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No. 2?Best Secret Swinger Clubs in the UK: Secrets Country Home, Devon

Travelling to the other end of the country? There＊s more to see in Devon than green fields and cream teas. Unless, of course, that＊s a euphemism for some of the kinky goings-on that happen behind the doors of the Secrets country home. Both seasoned swingers and curious newbies are welcomed into this secluded location, set halfway between Exeter and Plymouth. You＊ll find a fully-licensed bar, heated outdoor swimming pool, sauna with a capacity for 10 people, hot tub for 6, and massage services onsite. There is also a delicious buffet provided. Now for the naughty stuff. The Secrets house also has various themed rooms; a dance room, an orgy room, an X-rated cinema room, the ＆grope＊ room with cage and the new ＆trailer trash＊ installation. Parties go on until 5 am, so you＊ve got plenty of time to get kinky in every last corner.

Fetishes: A secret swingers club with a hedonistic twist: themed rooms, orgy spaces, cage play, and a ＆trailer trash＊ room invite roleplay and uninhibited group experiences.

Who is it for: Great for couples and singles who enjoy full-night swingers parties with a kinky vibe. Especially popular among adventurous 30每60-year-olds.

Address:Between Exeter and Plymouth 每 private country house, disclosed to members

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No. 3 Best Secret Swinger Clubs in the UK: Paradise Health Spa, Bournemouth

Let yourself be pampered at the brand new spa complex in Bournemouth. Paradise Health Spa is a naturist and swingers club for the traditional nudist or for those who fancy a naughtier experience. Massages, jacuzzis, a Swedish sauna, and a steam room that holds up to 11 guests - there＊s plenty to help you wind down after a long day＊s work. And if so much relaxation gets you in the mood, there are rooms available for taking hedonism to another level. Like?exhibitionism? As the owners themselves say, ※The doors can be locked ＃ but rarely are!§. Pro tip: treat yourself to their very own ＆bubble massage＊. We＊re not sure what it entails, but we sure want to find out.

Fetishes: Naturism, erotic massage, and soft-swinging meet wellness. The spa is ideal for fans of voyeurism and sensuality, with the option to explore beyond.

Who is it for: Naturists, curious first-timers, and sexually liberated guests aged 25每60+. Especially popular with those looking for sensual exploration in a calm space.

Address:Bournemouth, Dorset (full address provided upon booking)

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No. 4 Best Unknown Swinger Clubs in the UK: Dare To, Bristol

If you want to experience a whole other level of swinging, Dare To is the place for you. On the surface, it＊s an elegant venue decorated with antique furniture, home to the fully licensed Eagle bar, and even has a baby grand piano. On the roof terrace, there is a solarium and a hot tub. But just under the surface, the Dare To building becomes a very kinky place to be. There are 10 playrooms, all designed differently to fulfill every last desire. Further below still, in the basement, you＊ll find the kinkster＊s favorite, the Dare To dungeon. Here is where they hold?fetish events such as Fetish Day Play, Bi Bi-Curious Transcendence Nite, Deviant Desires, and the British Fetish Crew parties.

Fetishes: This UK swingers party spot is a dream for BDSM lovers, featuring a large dungeon, themed playrooms, and fetish nights like Deviant Desires and Bi Curious events.

Who is it for: Inclusive of couples, singles, trans, and non-binary folks. Especially appealing to those seeking crossover between swinging and fetish lifestyles.

Address:Bristol, UK (exact address sent to members in advance)

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No. 5?Best Secret Swinger Clubs in the UK: Gems, Somerset

What used to be a campsite for lovers of swinging and the alternative lifestyle has now turned exclusively into a sex party venue. But don＊t fret, they＊re no ordinary events at Gems. From the outside, it looks like a calm, countryside home but, once you take a step inside you＊ll find a massive roman orgy room, a jacuzzi room, a screened exhibitionists area, a massage couch room complete with showers, and lockers. But it doesn＊t stop there. For the more adventurous sexual deviant, there are two very kinky ＆dark＊ rooms. The first has a sex swing and multiple bed area, and the second, the kinkiest of them all, is the fetish room. Here you＊ll find a St. Andrew＊s cross, a?spanking bench, a smother box, and an adjustable medical table to carry out your deepest medical play desires. To get in on the action, you＊ll need to contact them first. They do this in order to keep a nice male-female ratio and ensure there＊s enough of each for everyone to enjoy.?

Fetishes: Gems offers a variety of themed rooms catering to diverse kinks. Facilities include a Roman orgy room, a jacuzzi room, a screened exhibitionist area, a massage room with showers, and two distinct 'dark' rooms. The first dark room features a sex swing and multiple beds, while the second is a fetish room equipped with a St. Andrew＊s cross, a spanking bench, a smother box, and an adjustable medical table for medical play enthusiasts.

Who is it for: The club welcomes both seasoned swingers and newcomers interested in exploring alternative lifestyles. To maintain a balanced and enjoyable environment, prospective attendees are required to contact the club in advance, ensuring a harmonious male-female ratio.

Address: Somerset, UK (exact address provided upon booking)

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No. 6 Best Secret Swinger Clubs in the UK: Angels, Melksham, Wiltshire

Explore your sexuality in a place that＊s anything but innocent. Known as Wiltshire＊s premium swingers＊ venue, Angels was purpose-built for nighttime naughtiness. The parties they hold are quite exclusive, limiting the number of guests to 75 couples maximum. That way, you＊ll get the opportunity to speak to almost everyone and not be overwhelmed. There are tons of areas for you to play around in, including open orgy rooms and lockable ones too. Kinksters are invited to let loose in the large dungeon area equipped with a suspended sex swing and?BDSM cage. Parties normally take place on Wednesday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, and they all have different themes. If you＊ve got a thing for mature sexually-liberated ladies, MILF night is not one to miss.?

Fetishes: Purpose-built club with lockable rooms, a large dungeon area, and a voyeurs' room.

Who is it for: Couples and individuals exploring alternative lifestyles in a safe environment.

Address: Avonside Enterprise Park (East Entrance), Old Broughton Road, Melksham, Wiltshire SN12 8BS

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No. 7 Best Secret Swinger Clubs in the UK: Swingers Quay, Torbay, Devon

The south west＊s biggest and best swingers club is known as Swingers Quay. Located in the picturesque tourist town of Torquay, the 200-year-old brewery building is home to some of the raunchiest reunions in the country. It boasts four whole floors to explore. Spread across these levels, there＊s a sauna fit for 12 people, a steam room for 10, and a spa area for 16! On top of that, you＊ve got video areas showing?adult films to get you in the mood, and plenty of dark corners for when you catch the eye of someone you like. Something to check out is Club Taboo. These fetish-heavy events are held on the first and third Friday of every month and are made for you to let go and embrace the darker, more exciting side of swinging.

Fetishes: Four floors including a sauna, steam room, spa area, and adult film viewing areas.

Who is it for: Individuals and couples looking for a comprehensive swinging experience in a historic setting.

Address: Torquay, Devon (exact address provided upon booking.

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No. 8 Best Secret Swinger Clubs in the UK: Swindon Swingers, Swindon, Wiltshire

No matter who you are, single or a couple, straight or gay, or anything in between, there＊s an event that welcomes you with very warm arms. What event, you say? Remix. It＊s probably the most inclusive event in Swindon and its surroundings. The name says it all. The idea is for you to come to Swindon Swingers and mix with new people with?all sorts of genders and sexual orientations and, if you want to, try something completely new. As with all the swingers clubs on this list, you＊re under no obligation to do anything you don＊t want to. But if you do you have a curious mind, why not check out the Swindon Swingers venue and explore things you＊ve never done before, in a nonjudgmental, safe, and sexy context?

Feeling Tempted Yet?

So, there you have it 每 a peek behind the velvet curtain of the UK＊s most secret swingers clubs. Whether you＊re craving kinky countryside escapes, bubbly spa seductions, or late-night dungeon delights, there＊s a place out there with your name on it (figuratively＃ or maybe literally, depending on the night).

Remember: the best parties aren＊t always the loudest ones. Sometimes, they＊re tucked away in a converted barn, a Georgian townhouse, or behind a door with no sign at all. All you need is a sense of adventure, a dash of curiosity, and maybe a kink or two in your back pocket.

So go on 每 grab your sexiest smart-casual outfit, polish your playroom etiquette, and dive into a scene that＊s waiting to welcome you with open arms... and maybe open legs.

See you on the dark side of the dance floor.

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FAQ: Your Questions About Secret Swingers Clubs in the UK

Are These Clubs Only for Couples?

Nope! While many swinger clubs do prioritize couples to maintain balance, singles, especially women, are often welcome, and some clubs host special singles nights or inclusive events. Always check the event rules before you go.

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Do I Need to Be Experienced to Go to a Swingers Party?

Not at all. Many clubs love welcoming curious newbies. Whether it＊s your first UK swingers party or your fiftieth, the key is communication, respect, and knowing your boundaries. And yes 每 it＊s okay to just watch.

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What Should I Wear to a Secret Swingers Club?

Think smart, sexy, and confident. Most clubs ask for smart-casual attire at the door (no joggers or flip-flops, please). Inside, dress codes can vary, from lingerie to latex, depending on the event. Pro tip: check the theme before you show up.

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Is Everything About Sex?

Surprise: not always. Many swingers groups host events where connection, conversation, and community come first. You＊re never pressured into anything 每 enthusiastic consent is the golden rule.

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How Do I Find Out About Secret Swingers Clubs Near Me?

Right here, babe 每 this list is a great place to start. You can also join the FET App to connect with local swinger clubs UK-wide, chat with other kinksters, and stay updated on upcoming events.

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Is It Safe?

Most reputable clubs take safety and consent very seriously, with security, rules, and staff on-site. And yes, condoms, towels, and aftercare basics are usually provided. If something feels off, say so. Consent is everything.

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Can I Go Just to Watch?

Totally. Being a voyeur is valid. Whether you want to watch, flirt, play, or simply soak up the atmosphere, you do you. Just be respectful 每 and never touch without explicit permission.

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Do I Have to Tell Anyone I＊m Going?

Only if you want to. These secret swingers clubs are discreet for a reason. What happens behind closed doors stays there 每 unless you want to tell your friends over brunch (we won＊t judge).

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